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                          Northern Gates                      Counselling

                            Recover personal wellness and experience peace
                                                                                                                        

         Recover from trauma, invalidation, and stigma
                                       
                                                     Manage mental illness
                                                      

                                                                 

        WELCOME

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​We all have times when we feel outside the flow of life

We may not get along others or even loved ones

We may experience anxiety, fear, or excessive worry

sadness, lack of energy, or difficulty engaging

social withdrawal

easily triggered defensiveness

low motivation

lack of enjoyment

excessive anger

We may  feel like we  don't fit in and have to "fake it"

We may be really hard on ourselves

Desperate to get away from our pain

Have bad thoughts or feel like hurting ourselves

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Sometimes "bad days" turn into a cycle        It may be hard to break free 

 

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When we get us stuck in a place we don't want to be

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When relationship become challenging             When our mind works against us

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It's Time for Change

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Recovery

is coming back to our comfortable selves

This involves a combination of self-acceptance and practice towards change

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Adopt an attitude of Recovery!

A recovery attitude happens when we have compassion 

for our own humanity

Not judge ourselves about what what makes us different

or measure ourselves

by what others have told us  we should be

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A healing attitude is curious

about the parts of us that are stuck

especially the angry, hurt parts of us

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We accept who we are

Nourish a deeper relationship with ourselves

and learn to better manage our 

Hard Days 

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It is possible to heal the core of our pain​

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Thanks to Joan Berezowski for the beautiful photography of Northwestern Ontario

 

 

 

 

 

 

Adopt an attitude of Recovery!

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A recovery attitude happens when we focus on a person's humanity

Not judging about what what makes them different

or measuring them by what we think they should be

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A healing attitude is curious

about the experience of people

especially those we don't understand

Makes room for diversity

We listen rather than make assumptions

Learn rather than categorize, dismiss, or push away

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A relational attitude of healing recovery puts people ahead of defending our opinions about what we think is good for them

Or violating them with uninformed judgements

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Feel Free

Feel free to be yourself on these pages, and please respect the right of others to be different. We are all in the same boat and everyone deserves respect. No one should feel alone and rejected by society. . I hope this is a site  everyone feels safe to visit.

 

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